I saw this image quote on my social media feeds and it struck a chord in me. It says:
âThis January, start the year with an empty jar. Each week, add a note with a good thing that happened.
On New Yearâs Eve, empty the jar and read about the amazing year you had.â
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Just when you had everything planned out for the remainder of the year â your tasks, projects, finances, celebrations⊠the biggest typhoon of your life hit you â metaphorically and literally.
We were minding our usual business⊠I was working and finishing my deadlines for the week and getting ready for client meetings. Mahal was busy with the resort. Everyone was working. Though we were getting news reports about an impending typhoon, upon checking, the eye of Typhoon Rai or locally known as Typhoon Odette wonât be hitting us but instead, it will head straight to Cebu City which is 3-4 hours away from where we are. We had plans of doing our Christmas shopping there that weekend so we figured that we just had to reschedule. Plus, weâve already experienced so many kinds of weather conditions here that we became complacent. We felt confident that itâs just another one of those storms. There could possibly be a brownout (electricity getting cut off) that will last for an hour or two, or at the most overnight, but that was it. We didnât do any kind of preparation at all â we didnât save water; we didnât charge our phones and electrical devices; we didnât check if we still have enough gas; we didnât buy supplies⊠nothing. It was as if it was just another day in our beach kind of life.
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Oh my goodness!
Itâs going to be Christmas soon, then New Year, and I still havenât blogged about the things Iâve always wanted to blog about (like the happiest Halloween we’ve ever had)! As usual, so many joyful and exciting things have happened and continue to happen in my life for which I am very much thankful! Iâm living my dream beach life and each and every day I try my best to spend it as if it were my last but without sacrificing my health too much this time around (hence, I’m not forcing myself to stay awake and do more than what my 16 waking hours would permit) coz health is one thing that we really treasure the most these days plus, at this day and age, it could really be our last with Covid around and this endless pandemic!
Anyway, itâs a blessing in disguise that Facebook disabled my account last Friday night just because I was posting photos of Mahal and Tuz in a five-star resort bathtub! They werenât fully naked and I didnât know bathtub photos were not allowed so I immediately deleted the post only to be disabled afterward. I canât post, I canât comment, I canât react⊠and itâs going to be for a week! Argh! Has this happened to you before? What did you do?
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Yey! Weâve now come to the 3rd part of our scuba diving adventure. Whew! It really took me a while, huh? So sorry about that. Aside from being so busy the past several weeks (which I told you about on my previous blog post), my mental and emotional health havenât been so good the past couple of months. So whatever strength and joy I still have in me, I just divert them to my priorities which are my work, Tuz, and our family. Â
Anyway, Iâm so happy to be publishing another blog post today and I hope to do it more frequently (Daily perhaps? Before I start my day at work like now? Hihihi! ) Writing about anything and everything about my life continue to be cathartic for me especially during these uncertain times and Iâm happy to share whatever I can with you, my dear readers. Thank you for always checking me out!
So again, letâs dive in!
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Oh hi there! I know itâs been a while but I havenât forgotten you. đ Work has just been so overwhelming (I just recently got another new client so yay for me!) but I donât want to complain considering that we are on the 2nd year of this Covid-19 pandemic. Having multiple work, being able to pay the bills, and being able to buy stuff we need and want at this time is very much a blessing so I canât complain. I must not complain! How about you? I hope youâre all still doing okay wherever you are.Â
Me, I would just like to give myself a little more pat on the back than usual because I also take care of our home (a.k.a. chores); I take care of Tuz and his home school activities; I take care of Mahal and his needs⊠Iâm a superwoman! Lol! The important thing is we are all still fine, healthy, and thriving. Just recently, a few of our neighbors have died from Covid so we are just really thankful that we are all still okay. Thank you, God! Of course I am worried all the time which adds to my energy getting depleted a lot faster than usual that Iâd resort to watching Netflix (currently addicted to Grace and Frankie) to relax and chill after work is done instead of blogging, vlogging, and finishing all those online courses I bought (which was my original plan but all this anxiety is getting me bogged down). So today, I am ending my inertia (of blogging laziness) by updating my blog and hopefully getting started with Marie Forleoâs B-School (after I finish her book Everything is Figureoutable). Mondays and Tuesdays were supposed to be my blogging/vlogging days that got replaced by beach days. Yes, you can find us at Mahalâs sisterâs private beach every Monday and Tuesday, swimming, snorkeling and picnicking (and soon paddle boarding once I decide to buy a paddle board online). Saturdays and Sundays have become our chore days (laundry, doing groceries, cooking big batches of dishes for the whole week, Mahal doing his hobbies like bonsai-making, and me planting herb seeds and taking care of our little herb garden if Iâm not playing with my guitar or reading. I also plan to add painting to my weekend repertoire). Then Monday-Tuesday weâre off to the beach, then Wednesday-Friday is where I focus on finishing my work deadlines. Itâs a simple but good life (for me at least coz being productive and busy with so many different things makes me worry less). Iâll blog about our Oslob life once Iâm done getting you updated with our scuba diving adventure.Â
So letâs dive in!Â
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OMG! A scuba diving adventure! Finally! I’ve been urging Mahal to try scuba diving since he has been looking at posters when we were in Malapascua last May for Mother’s Day. He likes doing adventurous stuff like me. I’ve tried scuba diving a few times before in my 20s and 30s and after my last stint in Batangas more than 10 years ago, I didn’t dare scuba dive again because though I like going into adventures, my heart sometimes couldn’t take the suspense of it all due to my hypertension. So, I’m happy to just let Mahal do it this time while I take take pictures and videos of him. đ
Anyway, before Mahal took his scuba diving lessons last month during Father’s Day, we first enjoyed the dive resort where we stayed — Cebu SeaView Dive Resort which is in Panagsama Beach in Moalboal, a place famous for the sardine run. I joined my diver friends back in 2010-2011 for a sardine run in Pescador Island, also in Moalboal and it has been fun! I wanted Mahal to experience it too and Tuz and I will just enjoy it from above by snorkeling. So that was the plan.
In the meantime, we enjoyed this little dive resort first off the coast of Panagsama, Moalboal in Southwestern Cebu.
Here’s our HONEST and DETAILED review about Cebu SeaView Dive Resort :
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Hello Summer! Itâs been a busy 2.5 months as we started our new beach life here in Oslob, Cebu and I promise, I will be catching up on my blog posts and vlogs until I get more current with whatâs happening with us. I may still insert some throwback travel posts from the past since Iâve collected a ton all these years. But for now, here is a vlog on how our transfer from Cagayan de Oro (where we lived, half the time, the other half was in Claveria) from Sept. 1, 2017 to Jan. 7, 2021) to Oslob, Cebu happened, how we got quarantined for 14 days when we got here, and what we did while in quarantine (Jan. 9-22, 2021).Â
For those who are considering transferring to their respective provinces in this time of the pandemic, you can check out this related blog post:
The first time we traveled during a pandemic was back in August and it was just within Cagayan de Oro City so the only documents that were required were barangay exit pass for our family, barangay clearance for me and Mahal, and health certificates for us three either from a doctor or the city health office certifying that we were in good health at that time. It was quite easy. This time around though, we were moving from Cagayan de Oro City in Northern Mindanao to Oslob, Cebu which is the southwestern part of Cebu Region. We traveled by land and then by boat from Cagayan de Oro port to Cebu port then traveled by land again for 3-4 hours outside of Cebu City.
The following documents were required of us (and I assume it would be the same for people traveling by boat between regions anywhere in the Philippines). Just keep in mind that once you have all these travel requirements, their validity will last for only 2 weeks. So you better have your travel itinerary ready and make sure you’re good to go!
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While most of you have probably been in quarantine / lockdown for about a month or so now, Iâve been imposing it on and off upon myself and my family since I first heard about the coronavirus in the news the last week of January. We were preparing for another batch of Hands-On Mushroom Training at that time when the Coronavirus Outbreak began circulating in the media. My âprepperâ instinct tingled and I started having worst-case scenario visions in my head. (“prepper” is a person who believes a catastrophic disaster or emergency is likely to occur in the future and makes active preparations for it, typically by stockpiling food, ammunition, and other supplies.) That was the time I started buying a little bit more than the usual number of masks and alcohol bottles we use for mushroom training just in case the outbreak becomes an epidemic, or worse, a pandemic. And because we had plans of going back to Cebu to set up another Mushroom farm, I almost decided not to go for fear of contracting the virus during our travel. This was around Jan. 25-28 when the rest of the world didnât care much about the Coronavirus yet, and much less about preparing for it.
This is probably the longest I havenât blogged. Itâs been so long that I have to read what I wrote last time coz I donât remember anymore, lol. And it made me cringe a bit that my last post before this was about my health and my suspicion of having Dengue which happened before all this Novel Corona Virus, now called Covid-19, started hitting the news.
Anyway, as an OC person, I want to have some semblance of chronology about what has been happening to me the past several months so this long overdue blog update might be a bit long. Just bear with me. Iâll try to only give you the summaries and Iâll just write more about them, one topic at a time, on my next blog posts. For now, here are the abridged versions:
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It has always been on my mind to blog about Oslob, a quaint and beautiful municipality in southern Cebu. After all, thatâs where I met the current love of my life back in March 2012 (check our love story) and which I now consider as one of my second homes because IÂ can no longer count how many times Iâve been to this charming place known for its whale sharks and beautiful falls. I’ve also mentioned it quite a few times on my blog, particularly when I’d do my yearly How to Travel and Look Back posts, but I’ve never really come up with a detailed blog post about it yet, until now. And this is just the first. More coming as I continue with my daily blogging.
I was also reminded of it once again when I got interviewed recently by BlogMeter Top (the article hasnât been published yet, I will share once itâs out) and one of their questions was what is my favorite blog post here in MomTraNeur and I mentioned that it was the story of my current love life. Iâm a mushy kind of person after all (in case you havenât noticed yet), hihihi!
You see, Iâve been married for so long before (2002-2012) and it crumbled in 2013. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I will find love again. I never dated. My ex was my first and last. I never had any other sexual encounters aside from my ex. Despite my being âSexy Nomadâ at that time, I really am a naive and conservative girl deep down. Everything that happened after, with my now current life partner, is nothing but miraculous. And the more I look back how it all came to be, the more I cherish our love and the life we have now. And little did I know at that time that it all started in OSLOB.
So back to OslobâŠ
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